The book addresses through its individual writers’ eyes and feelings – so you can be there with them - how the myth of the Romantic Ideal and its emotional mandate of ‘Partner-Ownership’ can actually work in practice to weaken or destroy long-term relationships and families – the exact opposite of its purported goal.

The writings do so by first, questioning the social and biological validity - and as frequently lived in real life - the hypocrisies - of how most individuals think/believe they are supposed to organize their long-term partnerships and kids – the Love Organization of ‘Exclusive Couples’. But as many are aware from their own life - it’s that very Love Organization that isn’t working well for them – or their children’s lives. Regardless, even after failure - most keep repeating the identical cycle.

Secondly, again through the writers’ eyes - the individual writings illustrate how current sensuality/sex assumptions and attitudes and behaviors are used to either help bond - or weaken – or terminate - our long-term relationships.

As a whole the writings issue a call for ‘soul-searching’ about our current ‘sexual’ behaviors as they relate to our intended long-term partners and our children’s futures. Will more kids live as millions do today – in quasi-isolated single parent households – or are there other emotionally healthier alternatives available – IF we knew what they were - and had the courage to consider change in our norms.

It’s an easy book to read – but not so easy to think about - because the simple individual writings prompt us to answer why we behave the way we do regarding sensuality and sexuality. Is it because someone told us we should act ‘this’ way? – or because we want to? - or because our behaviors are sensible and help us reach a goal of a stable partnership/family? As you’ll discover - these are not easy questions to consider as myths and beliefs clash with real daily feelings.

You’ll be reading short cameos of individuals who are living in one of the five Love Organizations. They’ll be describing both the ‘good stuff’ about each Love Organization – why people choose to live that way. Others will be describing the ‘not good stuff’ – why so many people leave one Love Organization for another (frequently leaving their partner/best friend and kids behind as well).

You’ll find that the questions are ‘genderless’ – means both men and women have them. You’ll also find that ‘Sexual Orientation’ doesn’t change the relationship quests: meaning whether individuals relate to the opposite sex – same sex – or either sex - all have the same issues – thoughts – feelings - fears.

There is a new added Section on Sensuality/Sex itself. It asks questions about the very nature of sensuality and sex - why people have such widely varied positive and negative perceptions and attitudes that affect their daily intimate life.

There is also a new Section on Neurochemists Research – the involuntary (no conscience control) flow of brain chemicals that determine when/who we ‘fall IN and OUT of love’ with. The ‘Brain Chemicals of Attraction/Lust/Bonding’ provides a valuable insight as to why there are so many serial relationships. Individuals just involuntarily run out of brain chemicals for a specific person…not out of love for them.

Enjoy the reads. If a particular writing strikes a cord with you – share it with your existing or would-be partner. Use it as a platform for a discussion. If you want more insights – buy the book. At $10.50 – it’s a lot cheaper than a divorce.

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